Where Medicine Meets Intimacy

Sex used to bring you closer. Now it's a source of tension, awkwardness, or avoidance.

Maybe desire has disappeared—for one or both of you. Maybe intimacy has become painful. Maybe medications that help your health have quietly sabotaged your sex life. Maybe you're exhausted, stressed, or dealing with hormonal changes that nobody prepared you for.

You've probably tried talking about it. It either went nowhere or made things worse.

One or both of you may have seen a doctor. You got a prescription, maybe some lubricant, a quick reassurance that "this is normal." But nobody asked how this is affecting your relationship. Nobody looked at both of you together. Nobody connected the dots between her hormones, his heart medication, your stress levels, and the growing distance between you.

You've seen doctors separately. She got advice for menopause. He got pills for erectile dysfunction. But nobody asked: How is this affecting your relationship? Nobody looked at both of you as a system. Nobody gave you real answers about why this is happening and what actually works.

Meanwhile, you're wondering if this is just how it is now. If you're supposed to accept a sexless partnership because you're middle-aged. If everyone else has figured this out and you're the only ones still struggling.

Here's the truth:

Sexual dysfunction is almost always a couple's problem requiring couple's solutions. When one partner struggles, the other feels it too. And treating you separately—without addressing your hormones, your medications, your communication patterns, and your relationship dynamics together—leaves the core issue unresolved.

This retreat is for couples who:

• Feel disconnected sexually but still care deeply about each other

• Are dealing with desire discrepancy (one wants sex more than the other)

• Experience pain, dysfunction, or changing bodies that make intimacy harder

• Are navigating menopause, andropause, or other hormonal transitions together

• Want medical solutions, not just therapy—but also need help communicating better

• Are tired of being treated separately when you're experiencing this together

• Refuse to accept that a satisfying sex life is over just because you're in long-term relationship or because you are older

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